Moving your fantasies into reality

Recently, a lover asked me to share some of my erotic fantasies with him. At that moment, I couldn’t think of any sexual or erotic desire that I hadn’t already created for myself.

Now, I do have fantasies. They are healing and powerful for me. But in my fantasies, it is important for me to discern between the projected in my mind and the underlying desire in my body.

Ultimately, I want to see the path that brings my fantasies forward into my material reality. And that becomes challenging when we don’t understand the underlying desires that are fueling the fantasies.

I am not the type of person who revels in unrealized fantasies. And I do not usually like to form attachments to fantasies that are outside of integrity or that can never be a part of my life.

I want to experience, embody, and create my fantasies. I want to receive the pleasure and pain. I want my fantasies to pull my realities into new dimensions.

And in my work with clients, I want to guide you into new worlds and dimensions of pleasure that are fueled by your fantasies.

When a true desire lands in my body, when I know that it is something I want, I start figuring out how to make it happen in my life.

I want to feel it, receive it, embody it. I don’t want it to remain in my head.

I’m good at creating and I’m especially good at creating the sex I want. It’s why I do this work!

My whole life I’ve been extremely motivated to find deeper connection and pleasure through sex. And while I’m always learning and growing, this is one area of my life I no longer doubt. I trust myself to be able to create and manifest the desires and fantasies that show up in my head, heart, and body.

Now, I feel confident in my ability to create deeper connections, hot sex, and lots of pleasure.

But this hasn’t always been true. I had to do a lot of inner work, unlearning and deprogramming, self-reflection, and skills-building to get where I am. And I’m still in that process as it never ends.

I love moving my fantasies into realities. They don’t always look exactly the same, and that’s okay because creating a carbon copy of my mental fantasy isn’t the point.

The point, for me, is to identify the depths of the desire that is fueling the fantasy. It is about finding and discovering the vibration of what I truly want, and then laying the groundwork to make it happen in my life and body.

I find there are usually limitless ways to manifest a particular desire. And when we get attached to one version/person/type of that manifestation in our minds, we limit ourselves, our pleasure, and ultimately our peace and fulfillment.

My work with clients is about creating a space where all of your fantasies and desires are welcome. I want you to show up fully — trusting that I will hold you and see you in all of it.

And together we will co-create something beautiful. We’ll be in practice. We’ll be in relational spaces where you get to experience the thrill, excitement, and pleasure of being seen, held, and witnessed.

You’ll learn how to move your fantasies into reality.