Do relationships different.

Experiential Relationship & Intimacy Coaching

Online & In-person in Nashville

Coaching for folks who want to move beyond the false promises and expectations of traditional relationships

  • I am a relationship and intimacy coach and I work with folks who aren't served by the traditional models of how we are supposed to do relationships. I specialize in coaching people who are grappling with how to create more expansive, generative, easeful, and love-centered relationships.

    We do this by creating a space with my 6 Agreements Framework where you can imagine and create relational models that go beyond the socio-cultural norms we’ve been taught to believe. It is a love-centered approach that centers your choice, responsibility, curiosity, power, and body.

    Through unique, embodied coaching methods that emphasize consent, integrity, and communication, I guide you toward nurturing and sustaining deeply satisfying relationships.

    With me, you'll discover how to balance giving with receiving, articulate your needs, and foster a connection that's as rewarding as it is joyful.

  • Clients who have shown up fully often leave this work with a renewed clarity of what they want and a readiness to say no to what they are no longer willing to endure.

    Clients have

    → found new and fulfilling relationships

    → figured out how to open up their relationship in ways that felt safe and pleasurable for everyone

    → discovered new and more aligned ways to express their gender, sexuality, and desires

    → moved to their dream home/city

    → left unfulfilling jobs

    → asked their partners to renegotiate the agreements of their relationship

    → stepped closer to the folks and partners they loved

    → set new boundaries around family and friends

    → in general found new ways to find pleasure and fulfillment within themselves.

    This work will change how you show up for yourself and others. It will fundamentally change the ways you approach and ask for intimacy, connection, relationships, and fulfillment. For many clients, these questions are about primary partners, family, colleagues, and friends. But it also extends to money, food, our physical appearance, and so much more.

    We come together and create a space where we get to take truly radical responsibility for our desires, limits, and bodies. We create experiments together to unlearn what has not worked for us while rediscovering new ways to move in our bodies.

    The transformative essence of this work revolves around prioritizing love, justice, consent, and integrity. That requires us to untether ourselves from the systems of dominance that have promised us so much and delivered so little.

  • → navigating open and poly relationships

    → creating relational models that feel safe

    → navigating expansive identities related to gender, expression, and sexuality

    → asking for what you want, knowing what you want, receiving what you want

    → moving beyond people pleasing and overgiving

    → how to be in integrity with yourself, your values, and agreements

    → how to create agreements for yourself and your relationships

  • This work is for folks who want to improve their relationships with themselves, their bodies, and their friends, family, and partners.

    This work asks that you show up with a lot of curiosity about yourself, your responsibilities, your integrity, your body, your desires, and your limits.

    We’ll explore the unique challenges facing you and create experiments that are tailored to your needs.

    We’ll also examine the socio-cultural implications that impact us in our relationships.

    The folks who see the biggest results are the ones who are willing to be present — especially when it gets hard.

    Shining a light on our shadows is not always easy, but I have seen massive growth and transformation come from those who do it and take action.

    This work is best suited for folks who have already begun the journey of self-discovery. If you are just starting out, this can be challenging and uncomfortable.

Intimacy Frameworks Quiz

Get clear on the challenges that show up for you in your relationships.

Evolution, empowerment, transformation

This work is transformative and empowering. You’ll be shown a path toward growth and healing that will offer you something better and more fulfilling. You’ll have the tools to process the integration that filters through your body in the months that follow.

Holistic, Long-Term Impact

Many clients start this work feeling confused, disappointed, trapped, and unhappy in their relationships (with partners, themselves, their bodies, food, money, etc.). They usually come in focused on one aspect of their lives, but the ripples of this work extend into romance, work, money, and where we live. You will see the impact of this work for years after you have completed the program.

Somatic and touch practices

I like working somatically with the body because of its ability to efficiently shine a light onto the parts of ourselves we repress, overlook, and hide from. When it feels like our minds are confused or unable to discern the wisdom we need, we can look to our bodies for the wisdom they hold. It’s amazing how quickly these parts of ourselves emerge when given the space. And together, we get to be present with them, hold them, love them, and transform them.

Massive growth

We navigate this practice through somatic practices of the body, but this work penetrates far beyond the surface into the depths of your soul and consciousness. It will fundamentally transform the way you think about desire, pleasure, relationships, and how you want to show up in the world.

I began this journey because I felt trapped in my relationships.

I didn’t feel seen by my friends. My romantic partnerships were hurtful, shallow, and emotionally violent.

I didn’t know what I was doing wrong or what to do to make it better, but I knew it had to be better than this.

And it makes sense — Most of us had poor models for how to create fulfilling, generative, and spacious relationships.

We have to choose to unlearn the old ways so that we can create something better.

This work is for folks who want to untether and unravel themselves from creating and maintaining relationships that are hurtful, harmful, or unfulfilling.

This work is for folks who want to make it better for themselves.

I have been on that journey, and I remain on that journey.

I know the fear, shame, guilt, and grief that comes with it. And I know what it feels like on the other side.

My skills lie in helping you see the shadows, find where it hurts, and help you find a path that feels more fulfilling.

We do that through somatic, touch, and two-way experiments.

Together we’ll create a relationship that centers an awareness of agreements on responsibility, consent, curiosity, power, presence, and safety.

Learn more about me here.