The gift and wisdom of surrender

What would you need in order to surrender… to your desires, to your partner’s touch, to receiving love, to your own body’s wisdom?

For me to surrender, I want trust.

→ I want to trust that my limits will be honored.

→ I want to trust the space and container we are in.

→ I want to trust the privacy and confidentiality.

→ I want to trust that you won’t ghost me if I allow my emotional and energetic body to show up fully.

Your surrender is a gift to your partner. A gift of your physical body, emotional body, and energetic body.

And in that gift of your body, you can find a depth of pleasure, pain, emotion, and connection.

But only if we know how to create spaces where trust can not just be present, but flourish, grow, and evolve.

Surrendering with me

When you’re with me 1-1, we experiment a lot with the gift of surrender and what you need in order to be brave enough to allow.

I understand that this is often fraught with past harm, violence, and trauma. It certainly was for me.

I understand that surrender can be both titillating and terrifying.

And I understand how to slow down enough so that we can feel our bodies, our limits, and our desires together.

I know that in the real world, surrender can be hard and I want to guide you to a place where it can be easier for you to create relationships where that is possible.

And we do that together, in practice.

The practice of surrender

In this practice you’ll get to feel the depth of fulfillment that comes when you’re able to trust, let go, and surrender.

You also get to be in the pleasure of taking from me as I surrender.

You’ll get to navigate and notice the challenges and fears that inevitably show up.

And you’ll get to embody a new way of showing up more fully, more alive.

The wisdom of surrender

There is so much wisdom that can emerge in this place of surrender. We learn about our limits, our boundaries, the pleasure of giving. And navigating that with another person will stir up old stories, projections, joys, harms, and everything in between.

I believe that we have all the wisdom we need in our bodies. We just have to be still in order to listen.

And that means we have to know how to surrender to ourselves.

To be honest, surrendering to me is the easy part. I know how to create spaces full of love, compassion, and safety.

Surrendering to yourself is the hard part.

And that’s the part that will change everything about your life.

If you’re interested in exploring this more deeply with me, I hope you’ll read more about me and my work and set up a consultation for us to talk.