Integrity Frameworks

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My Integrity Frameworks represent six pillars that I find to be necessary in any relationship or community that is striving for greater intimacy, connectedness, love, and conflict resolution.

They are meant to encourage inquiry and action to make requests for what you want and to set limits for what you are not willing to endure or tolerate.

It is from these six pillars that we can create strong and flexible agreements with our selves, our loved ones, our spiritual practices, and our communities.

I believe that when we bring radical clarity to these six pillars, we are able to be in practices of consent and integrity with ourselves and each other.

These Integrity Frameworks are meant to question and challenge the teachings of mainstream culture. They are designed to open up new pathways for relationships, community, and love that exist outside of the violence perpetrated by colonialism and capitalism.

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Responsibility & Consent

I will take responsibility for my desires, limits, and body. I will not take away your responsibility to make choices around your desires, limits, or body.

Vulnerability & Authenticity

I will bring awareness to the spaces and relationships I enter and decide for myself how honestly and authentically I want to show up.

Curiosity, unlearning, & Compassion

I will be consistently curious about my desires, limits, and body. I will question my habits, thoughts, and patterns, and work to unlearn pieces that I have been taught to be true by the dominant culture. When conflict arises, I will be curious about your actions and not project my own assumptions and thoughts.

Dynamics & Power

I will bring awareness to the dynamics present in my relationships. I will commit to doing my own work so that I can understand the places where I hold power, rank, and privilege. And I will notice the spots where I feel like I have a lack of power.

Trust & safety

I will be curious and questioning about what I want in order to feel safe enough to be present with myself and with you. I will ask for what I need to develop trust.

Awareness & Presence

I will be conscious of my choices to be present. I will ask myself and others for what I need to be present physically, emotionally, energetically, and mentally.