The Paradox of Porn (pt 1) w/ Don Shewey
The Three-Minute Game w/ Harry Faddis
Don Shewey’s latest book, THE PARADOX OF PORN: Notes on Gay Male Sexual Culture, takes an insightful look at how porn has played a role in our identity and sexual development as gay men.
It looks at the benefits of porn as well as the destructive tendencies it can have on our lives and relationships.
In part 1, we discuss the basics of this paradox while part 2 goes into some of the questions of how we can navigate our lives with porn.
Don’s contributions into how we understand gay-male identity cannot be overstated, and this book does not disappoint. I highly recommend it for anyone who has ever looked at porn.
Creating Erotic & Spiritual Spaces for Queer Men w/ Harry Faddis
The Three-Minute Game is one of my favorite things in life. It is so simple but so incredibly profound in what you can learn about yourself.
It was invented by Harry Faddis.
We spoke to Harry in the previous episode about his involvement in creating spiritual & erotic spaces for queer men including those with the Body Electric School, the Gay Coaches Alliance, and as a founding member of Easton Mountain Retreat Center. All of these institutions have been monumental in providing a unique space for queer men to experience a more full, erotic, and spiritual life.
In this episode, we go deep into the Three-Minute Game. If you don’t know the game, it involves two people and two questions:
It is incredible the amount of information you can download about yourself from these simple two questions. We dive into this and more in the episode. Enjoy!
Getting Started with Automatic Writing
Harry Faddis (email) has been creating erotic and spiritual spaces for queer men for decades. He has been an important influence on my personal & professional development, as he has for countless other men.
He was an instructor for the Body Electric School for 15 years, a co-founder of the Gay Coaches Alliance, and a founding member of Easton Mountain Retreat Center. All of these institutions have been monumental in providing a unique space for queer men to experience a more full, erotic, and spiritual life.
In this episode, I talk to Harry about some of the spaces he has been involved with and the important evolution they have experienced over the years.
The Power of Seeing Your Body w/ Gaston Lacombe
Automatic writing is when you let go of your ego and conscious intention and write from your soul. It has become one of the most important and valuable pieces of my spiritual practice and I recommend to almost everyone.
In this episode, I talk about how you can get started and some good question prompts to get you started.
My Morning Ritual - Coffee, Meditation, and Writing
In this interview I interview Gaston Lacombe about his work photographing men and how vulnerability and shame play such a big part in how we view and value ourselves.
Gaston Lacombe is an artist based in Provincetown, MA, where he runs his own studio and art gallery. His work is a unique mixed-media approaches to photography, often by combining it with other techniques, such as drawing and painting. For the last few years, his main subject of interest has been portraits of men.
You can check out more of his work on his website, and I highly recommend that you follow him on Instagram where he posts regularly on his work and life in Provincetown.
Manifesting thru Your Erotic
I have a lot of conversations with folks around how they can integrate a spiritual practice into their day.
My morning ritual is the most important part of my day. It is in this time between waking and work that I can find the most wisdom and insight. It has become such an important part of my spiritual practice, that I can’t imagine being able to move forward without it.
Here’s what I do and how I do it.
What is The Sacred Erotic Podcast? What do you do?
Getting to the heart of our true wants and desires so that we can manifest them is tough.
There are, of course, many ways to do this. But for me and many of my clients, I’ve found that tapping into our sexual energy can be an efficient way to dive deeper into our bodies to better understand our intuition and desires.
In this episode I talk about what this podcast is and will be. I also talk a bit about my 1-1 spiritual coaching with men in NYC.
I’m very excited about where this podcast will go. There are some exciting guests that will be joining us in the coming weeks!
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