Manifesting in an Erotic Space

We hear a lot about manifestation. We want to manifest abundance, the right job, the perfect man… but those goals can be wily creatures - always sneaking away right when we think we have them.

The thing is, it is not about manifesting a few good things like a job or a man. We are manifesting our realities all day. And we are manifesting exactly what we ask for.

The problem is we don’t really understand what we are asking for because we don’t truly know what we want and desire.

Getting to the heart of our true wants and desires is tough. From a very early age almost everyone and everything around us is hellbent on telling us what we should want and what we should be.

We hear about what we need to become from so many people that it quickly takes over our thoughts and emotions. And those thoughts and emotions get lodged in our minds and in our bodies.

Adam Nicholson + Sri Yantra

Start with your sexual energy.

Use it to go deeper into your body. When you can expand it and deepen that erotic state, you’ll have so much clarity around your desires - and your ability to manifest.

And it is then that things start to get really fun.

For many us, we go down these paths that we think we should take. For some lucky ones, those can be wonderfully soul-aligned paths. For others, like me, they were way (WAY) out of alignment.

At some point though, we usually get a sense that something feels off. We begin to believe that there’s something more for us out there, something more fulfilling. But sensing that there is more for us out there doesn’t help us in asking for what we want.

Manifesting thrives on specificity. So, to ask for something “better” is not going to help much. We need to have clarity around what we want, what excites us, and what brings fulfillment.

There are, of course, many ways to do this. But for me and many of my clients, I’ve found that tapping into our sexual energy can be an efficient way to dive deeper into our bodies to better understand our intuition and desires.

SEXUAL ENERGY AND THE EROTIC

Arriving into a blissful erotic space is not easy for many us these days. Our attentions are fought over wildly and well by TV, social media, men, porn, and a million other things. We have become professionals at being disembodied. So much so that for many of us, when we are lucky enough to have an ecstatic, present, embodied experience, we end it quickly and reach for our phones as soon as we can.

But it is in that erotic space where we can find so much of what we are looking for. It is there that clarity steps in and confusion melts away. In an erotic state where everything is flowing from our souls, minds, and bodies, we can see our desires and know what to ask for. And when we have clarity around what to ask for, we can begin to manifest some truly amazing things.

For many of us, the pathway here is through our genitals. It is not the only path, but it is the one most of us know quite well. However, if we’re only reaching an erotic state of flow during a 1-3 second orgasm, we’re missing out on a lot.

There are many things we can do to extend and expand this state.

  • Breathing exercises can teach us how to pull and expand our sexual energy out from our genitals.

  • Using our intention can help to push and pull this powerful energy to other parts of our bodies that need it.

  • Meditation can help in being present for what is happening in our bodies and how the sexual energy is impacting us.

  • Non-ejaculation practice can help bring awareness around what is possible with our bodies. Once we begin to understand that we don’t have to come every time we jerk off or have sex, new worlds can start to unfold.

None of these are particularly easy, but none of them are very hard either (with a little effort).

Over time, these practices will take you deeper and deeper into your body. You will start to form a new relationship with how your body and your sexual energy operates. You’ll begin to notice that your erotic state is expanding - and not just during sex but in other areas of your life as well.

And when that happens, you’ll start to have much more clarity around those things that are not in alignment in your life. While before you might have “sensed” that something was off, you’ll soon know what that something was.

Knowing that is critical in being able to see new paths and take new steps on your journey. If you don’t trust your body, you’ll always be second guessing.

Unfortunately, if you’re second-guessing your intuition, you will more than likely stay on the same path because it is known. Things that are known feel safer to us - even when we know they aren’t right for us. Then, you’ll just be manifesting more and more of the same.

Start with your sexual energy. Use it to go deeper into your body. When you can expand it and deepen that erotic state, you’ll have so much clarity around your desires - and your ability to manifest.

And it is then that things start to get really fun.